poeple who disagree on your changes.

i just encounter another situation whereby people whom disagree about your life and your circumstances. why do some people has to say or react in a way that they cant accept the changes in you, changing into someone better and benefit. isn't that is what every person is looking forward for?

for an example, the prisoners were given a yellow ribbon from the outsiders which they believe that they can change and given another chance in life. so in general, if bad people can change into a good or a better person, why cant others give them a chance to let them roll and live. I'm not trying to say in other terms. i know its kinda confusing but try to get what i mean.

i know that i do behave and react nonsense in the past but at least I'm not as bad as what you expected. i am a grown up person now who thinks about my future, my goals and my achievement. why cant they let us be happy, or stop making our life miserable and leave it hanging lose? it's already bottles up too much that, its overcome, hurts that person, or indirectly towards the other. its not like I'm being a paranoia but just felt insecure and unappreciated.

i'll give you a sitaution. what if you look upon a person which you took him as a example, a good adviser and whom wakes you up on your long sleep but ending up, it fall into the drain. how does it feels like to be left alone and leave it hanging lose. disappointed ain't it? the best out of it is actually,... think. THINK AND FEEL(here i go again). why do you need to have doubt on the person where you know it from your heart that they has change into someone better. where is the faith all gone to, into the drain too i guess. all you believe was, is she really change for the time being or is it for real. now you tell me about it.


i guess i am getting further far away from the truth. or was i?